The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook by Melani Sanders is a humorous, supportive guide for women in perimenopause, menopause, and beyond, offering solidarity and permission to embrace the chaos of midlife by letting go of societal pressures and daily annoyances, like shaving legs or caring about fitting clothes, celebrating instead with humor and shared experiences of "not caring" about things like night sweats, memory lapses, or social obligations.