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Book Review: The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook: A Hot-Mess Guide for Women in Perimenopause, Menopause, and Beyond Who Are Over It

There are books that inform you.There are books that inspire you.And then there are books that make you laugh so hard you question whether your neighbors can hear you cackling through the walls. The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook is absolutely that third kind of book, and then some.

From the very first page, this book announces its mission loud and clear: we are done apologizing, done shrinking, done pretending we’re fine when hormones are throwing surprise parties in our bodies, and definitely done caring about things that no longer deserve our energy. Consider this your official permission slip to laugh, roll your eyes, reclaim your power, and live your best “unbothered” life.

And yes, I laughed out loud. Repeatedly. 😆

A Love Letter to Hot Flashes, Mood Swings, and Real Life

If you’ve ever:

✔️ Lost your train of thought mid-sentence

✔️ Forgotten why you walked into a room

✔️ Felt personally victimized by your thermostat

✔️ Cried over a commercial and then laughed about it five minutes later

✔️ Wondered if your patience simply evaporated overnight

…welcome home.

This book doesn’t sugarcoat the realities of perimenopause and menopause, it celebrates them with humor, honesty, and a refreshing sense of camaraderie. It feels like sitting around the table with your smartest, funniest girlfriends, swapping stories, laughing at the absurdity of it all, and realizing you’re absolutely not alone.

The brilliance of this handbook is its emotional intelligence wrapped in comedy. It’s smart without being preachy, empowering without being exhausting, and hilarious without being shallow. It validates what so many women experience but rarely feel free to talk about openly.

Why This Book Works So Well

What makes this book a standout is its fearless authenticity. It reminds us that this season of life isn’t something to endure quietly, it’s something to embrace boldly.

You’ll find: sharp wit and laugh-out-loud moments, relatable stories that feel eerily familiar, permission to release unrealistic expectations, a gentle but firm reminder that your peace matters, a refreshing “we’ve earned this confidence” energy. It doesn’t tell you how to “fix” yourself, because you’re not broken. Instead, it invites you to redefine success, boundaries, beauty, and joy on your own terms. And frankly? That’s powerful.